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    The Nature of Love: Infant Attachment

    Over fifty years ago a speech called “The Nature of Love” was presented at the American Psychological Association (APA)
    conference.  The presenter was Harry Harlow, then president of the APA.  In that speech, Dr. Harlow shared the preliminary
    results of some very basic, but revolutionary, experiments on infant attachment done with baby rhesus monkeys at the
    University of Wisconsin.
    Harlow’s research is a prime  example of how the practice of Clinical Psychology integrates research, theory and practical
    application.  

    At the time of Harlow’s tenure, a predominant theory was that an infant reaching for mother was the result of nothing more
    than the  learned association between mother and nutrition.  This led to the popularization of the idea that responding to a
    baby’s cries would result in the development of a dependent adult and should, therefore, not be practiced.

    The Research: Harlow’s experiments provided the hard science to support the theories of Mary Ainsworth and John Bowlby
    who had begun to challenge the theories of such  behaviorists as John Watson and B. F. Skinner.  Bowlby and Ainsworth
    believed that the attachment which existed was distinct from the association between mother and food.

    To test the importance of the nurturance that was provided by mothers, Harlow removed newborn monkeys  from their
    mothers and housed them with surrogate mothers of either terry cloth or wire.  Given the choice between a wire mother who
    dispensed milk and a milk-free terry cloth mother, infant monkeys preferred terry cloth mothers.

    When exposed to a moving toy or a strange room, babies with cloth mothers rushed to them, buried their faces in the soft fabric
    and relaxed.  Babies with wire mothers shook in terror against the wall.
    For infant monkeys that were  totally isolated during critical periods in the development of maternally directed affection, the
    introduction of either the wire or the terry surrogate  mother not only gave them no security, but instead appeared to serve as a
    fear stimulus.

    Harlow’s researchers observed that infant monkeys raised by monkey mothers and then separated from them became
    uninterested in exploration and  became listless; and that the  monkeys who were put in total isolation became despairing and
    depressed.  He concluded that infant monkeys are very vulnerable to loss of what he  described as “contact comfort”.

    Harlow also found that, like monkeys separated from their mothers, monkeys left alone with wire mothers for a long period of
    time appeared lifeless and stared away.
    Harlow found that this mother-infant  bond is highly resistant to forgetting and is retained for very long periods of time by
    relatively infrequent contact reinforcement.  He also   found, however, that  extreme deprivation intensified the tie to the mother
    and the need for contact comfort so much that it overwhelmed the exploratory behaviours one would expect of  the monkeys.

    In contrast, when monkeys with the wire mothers were exposed to cloth mothers, they began to play and to use the mother as a
    safe base from which to explore.  However, they did not rush to the mother and cling to her tightly; they were tentative then
    went toward and around her.

    Not only did Harlow find that  monkeys living with mothers thrived while those deprived of mothers withered away and
    sometimes died, he also found that monkeys who had neither mothers, nor peers, were unable to connect with others.  When
    the isolated monkeys were taken out to play and mate, many were antisocial or violent, and some began to show  autistic–like
    behavior.

    After isolating those factors which were important for the development of attachment,  Harlow experimented with ways to heal
    traumatized monkeys.  He found that simply pairing the distressed infants with young nurturing monkeys could slowly
    rehabilitate them.

    The Theory: Through his research, Harlow emphasized the importance of nurturance and attachment in normal development;
    and the  effects caused by neglect, loss  and disruption of the early bond.
    Harlow believed that formation of a healthy attachment must depend on more variables than just contact comfort.  Later he
    did identify factors which are important for the development of a healthy attachment.

    Harlow concluded that a lack of warmth and nurturance led to feeling disconnected not only from parents, but from others,
    and eventually from self.  He  established that love grows from the primary attachment,  and that the child then takes the
    memory of that so that every other interaction is a replay and revision of this early bond.

    To read more about the Clinical Application of Harlow's research on attachment, click here.