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    FAQ: Gender Variant Children

    How and when do children understand their gender identity?

    A child’s awareness of their gender identity begins during their first year of life and is typically stable by age five.

    How can we make our child conform to gender norms?

    Forced gender conformity can lead to anxiety, depression and  suicide; and is not likely to change your child’s gender identity.

    Why does it occur and what can I expect?

    Gender variance is not caused  by poor parenting.  Children who are gender variant may not remain gender variant.

    Is my child gay?

    Gender identity is different than sexual orientation.

    What about our gender variant child’s self-esteem?

    Loving your child regardless of their gender expression builds self-esteem.

    Is my family the only one dealing with a gender variant child?

    No, but it can feel isolating.  A group is a good way to get support and helpful information.

    What might I get out of  a support group?

    More in depth discussion about the prior questions.  
    An opportunity to ask questions like, “What do we tell others?”
    A chance to learn from other parents.



    A Positive Parenting Support Group for Parents of Very Gentle Boys and Tomboy Girls

    Call for details: Dr. Caretto (248) 553-9053